Unlearning the Scoreboard: A Second Shot at Real Development

April 16, 2025By Tony MatesiMotivation No Comments

Inspired by Jon Townsend’s “Development is Not Winning” “This mindset fosters a culture of blame and insecurity. Players conditioned to seek external validation often mirror their coaches’ behavior, shifting blame onto teammates in the same way their coaches may blame them.” —Jon Townsend, Development is Not Winning Jon Townsend’s recent article stopped me mid-scroll. As … Read More

When “The Hard Way” Isn’t the Smart Way

April 3, 2025By Tony MatesiMotivation No Comments

We all love a good struggle story. You pushed through the pain. You crawled through the mud. You clawed your way to the top, bloodied but victorious. There’s something primal and poetic about doing the hard thing—especially when you didn’t have to. Joe De Sena, founder of Spartan and the king of the “suffer more” … Read More

The Soulsborne of Suffering: How the Death Race and Soulslike Games Test the Same Spirit

March 4, 2025By Tony MatesiDeath Race No Comments

There’s something intoxicating about a challenge so ruthless, so unrelenting, that it forces you to confront your limits. For some, that challenge is found in the merciless worlds of FromSoftware’s Soulsborne games—where every death is a lesson, and survival is never guaranteed. For others, it’s the Death Race, a test of endurance that breaks competitors … Read More