Inspired by Jon Townsend’s “Development is Not Winning” “This mindset fosters a culture of blame and insecurity. Players conditioned to seek external validation often mirror their coaches’ behavior, shifting blame onto teammates in the same way their coaches may blame them.” —Jon Townsend, Development is Not Winning Jon Townsend’s recent article stopped me mid-scroll. As … Read More
Author: Tony Matesi
Strength Isn’t Shouting Into the Storm: Why Resilience Doesn’t Need a Spotlight
Recently, Joe De Sena shared a post celebrating the chaos of our current moment—economic downturns, political instability, and societal strain—as if it were all part of some glorious training plan. He wrote, “This is exactly what we train for,” casting suffering as a badge of honor for those who’ve supposedly prepared to thrive in it. … Read More
Why I Race With My Demons: Masochism, Military Envy, and the Stoic Path to Healing
Trigger Warning: This post contains discussion of sexual assault, trauma, and mental health. Please take care while reading. If you’re in a vulnerable place, feel free to skip or come back when you’re ready. When I met my wife, she saw through me faster than anyone ever had. She asked a question that cut straight … Read More
Modern Stoicism in a Chaotic World: How Endurance Racing Primes You for a Stoic Life
When the world feels like it’s spinning out of control, most people look for comfort. Me? I lace up my shoes, shoulder a log, and head into the unknown. The Death Race is pure chaos. No course map. No guaranteed finish line. No mercy. But I’ve found more clarity there — and on the flanks … Read More
Dancing with Death (and the Dow): Enduring Through the Crash
The stock market is crashing. Again. Tariffs. Politics. Panic. The kind of headlines that make your stomach drop before breakfast. For some, this means retirement accounts shrinking. For others, it’s the creeping dread of another financial storm we’re not ready for. I get it. I’ve felt that squeeze too. But here’s what I’ve learned after … Read More
When “The Hard Way” Isn’t the Smart Way
We all love a good struggle story. You pushed through the pain. You crawled through the mud. You clawed your way to the top, bloodied but victorious. There’s something primal and poetic about doing the hard thing—especially when you didn’t have to. Joe De Sena, founder of Spartan and the king of the “suffer more” … Read More
The Privilege of Chosen Suffering: Lessons from the Death Race and Beyond
Photo Credit: Marion Abrams – Madmotion I was standing at the edge of the Chittenden Reservoir, shivering, panicking, and crying. The second Death Race I ever entered had brought me to this moment: a three-mile swim in freezing, murky water. I wasn’t prepared. I didn’t have the right gear. And worst of all, I knew … Read More
No Finish Line: How Building a Startup Feels a Hell of a Lot Like the Death Race
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: there’s no glory in comfort.The Death Race taught me that. The kind of brutal, soul-stripping event that doesn’t care how strong you think you are—it’ll break you just to see what’s underneath. But I never expected to feel that same tension, that same grind, in the … Read More
The Soulsborne of Suffering: How the Death Race and Soulslike Games Test the Same Spirit
There’s something intoxicating about a challenge so ruthless, so unrelenting, that it forces you to confront your limits. For some, that challenge is found in the merciless worlds of FromSoftware’s Soulsborne games—where every death is a lesson, and survival is never guaranteed. For others, it’s the Death Race, a test of endurance that breaks competitors … Read More
Surviving Political Chaos: Endurance, Activism, and the Power of Persistence
If there’s one thing the Death Race taught me, it’s how to endure. How to push forward when everything inside me is screaming to quit. How to navigate obstacles that seem impossible. How to accept suffering as part of the journey and still find the will to keep moving. That kind of endurance isn’t just … Read More